Fantasy and Fetishes

There are two broad categories of fantasies and fetishes: one is often based on some real event in the person's life; the other is an imagined or fabricated fascination that a person would like to experience. Since you're already coming for a massage and bodywork session, we might as well explore some of those mental fantasies and fetishes that you've throught about or practiced.

Typical fantasy scenarios: I'm the coach, doctor, uncle, older brother, principal, neighbor, father, police officer, drill instructor, kidnapper, robber, blackmailer, thug, masochist, minister, building inspector, farmer, motorcyclist.  You name it, I've probably embodied that fantasy for a client.

As for fetishes, I'm always amazed at men's ability to present me with new fixations. Here's a compiled on-line definition for "fetish":

anything to which one gives excessive devotion; idolized object;
enhancing or satisfying sexual desire with some object, item of clothing or part of the body;

Here are samples of fetishes that men have felt safe enough to explore in my presence: leather accessories, muscle worship, boots, tennis shoes, jocks, wrestling singlets, uniforms, Speedos, whitie-tighties, masks, restraints, feet, armpits, nipples, diapers, wrist-watches, piss, scat, women's clothing or undergarments, porn ... you get the idea.

I don't pass judgement on my clients or their fantasies or fetishes. Instead, I listen or read as they explain it to me, then usually agree that we can incorporate it into their bodywork session, sometimes for a modest additional fee. It's not something my guys can do at their house with family around; but my space is a retreat for them, whether in my playroom or a nicely-appointed hotel room as I travel.

We can get right down to business because we've discussed ahead of time the specifics and costs. I don't need to waste any of our time together finding the accellerator for your engine. 

What cranks you up?

Bob Patrick