My Style 

By working together, we explore mutual strengths and needs. My touch ranges from light as an eyelash to my full 200 pounds of weight.  Lean and almost entirely smooth, my hands, arms and shoulders envelop and stroke you with a minimum of friction. I literally provide full body-to-body contact-massage that ranges from energy-exchange through Swedish, Thai and targeted deep tissue pressure. If you seek a standard table massage, you should book a more conventional masseur. 

I work in a simple, pleasing environment that's allergen-free. Clean linens drape my chairs and table and fresh towels are provided for your shower before and after the massage. A mixture of seven unscented oils is carefully warmed to comfortably facilitate touch and nourish your skin.

I provide a selection of music that maximizes our time together. To keep the sounds fresh, I feature transmissions from XM Satellite Radio. Or, if you have music that you'd prefer to hear, bring your tape or CD so we can both experience and move to your selections. 

Much is exchanged through conversation before and after your session. But during the massage our communication is non-verbal except for cues you offer to help me better meet your needs.  Often our time together will be punctuated with one of the most healing of sounds --- our laughter --- as we enjoy moments of lightness amidst the meditation and pleasure.

Many Options, Step by Step

Typically, I'll welcome you and spend a few minutes in conversation to identify any special needs or requests you may have. During this time we'll also agree on a time length, costs, objectives and boundaries. Next, you'll be warmed and refreshed by a sparkling, steamy shower. 

Then we'll begin by standing naked, face-to-face, and exploring each other with the lightest of touch. It's a way for each of us to become more comfortable with the other and provides a delightful sensation of giving and receiving. From here the options are many and each of our sessions will be different.

If you're up for it, I'll place you on my inversion table, a special piece of equipment that resembles a teeter-totter.  Your feet elevate and head declines as you invert, partially or fully. This stretches your back, increases circulation, and gives a great opportunity for trust, exploration and re-orientation.

We might let you try my "sphere" massage where I lay you face down or face up on big balls and work on your back, legs or torso. Or if you're having a lot of stress in your upper back, we might put you on the matt and roll you over foam cores to break the cycle of tension and muscle contraction.

If your weight allows, I may seat you on a padded bench face-to-face with me. Straddling the bench, and then sitting on my lap, you're wrapped in my arms as I work on your shoulders, upper and lower back. This is an extremely intimate embrace that sometimes reminds clients of being a child securely cradled in his parent's arms.  Then, laying you back on the bench, I work on your glutes, inner thighs, hamstrings and groin. This is when we might use suspenders to support your legs and relax your butt muscles as I work on your lower back and torso.

When we finish that phase, we may sit back-to-back and see-saw with each other, reclining fully backward against the other's spine, then being lifted up and pressed forward by the other's weight.  It's a little hard to describe or envision, but entirely memorable and pleasurable.

In another position, you rest a comfortably in a leather recliner with me seated before you on the floor, tending to your feet legs, hands and arms.  Relaxing in in the chair helps you maintain orientation and free breathing while I that work on you with my hands, feet, shoulders and torso.

Another option is 360-degree massage with you standing as I intertwine myself around your legs and thighs. Some stretches over my back help your upper torso expand and relax.  And a ride "horse-back" style on me can provide uncommonly stimulating sensations to your inner thighs and perineum.

If you're having a lot of issues with your neck, shoulders and upper back, we'll position you vertically on a professional massage chair. You've probably seen this at a salon in an airport or office mall. It allows me excellent access while helping you maintain better orientation and breathing.

Another phase may put you face down on one of my soft massage mounds or on the padded pyramid table. Head-to-toe attention begins all over again 

With an arm span of 6'6", I can caress you end-to-end, fingers to temples to toes. With one hand outstretched, I can massage both of your nipples at once as the other hand works on another part of your body. With my hands thumb-to-thumb, I span more than 20 inches of your back at once. I call this "wiping" or "wrapping" your muscles. It gives you a sensations of strength, security and serenity.

I vary my pressure in smooth, rhythmic and flowing cycles: sometimes I'll apply my complete body weight until the table beneath you creaks. Or, I may support my weight on a brace as I literally walk on your back. Then, I may contrast that pressure with the lightest of touch possible, sometimes using only my fingertips or the hair on my head or back of my hand.  

And if we ever run out of my innovations, we can place you on my professional padded massage table with a comfortable face support for my version of "traditional" massage. Of course, it's administered in non-traditional ways as I work over, under and around you.

Exploring Aura 

Our contact will range from a strong, masculine embrace to a virtual non-contact caress as I carefully hover my hands just micrometers away from your skin. Here's how I describe this aura exchange. Can you recall ever standing in a pitch black, unfamiliar hotel room at night, reaching blindly for doorway or light switch? Barely moving, you deliberately stretch out your hands before you in the darkness, trying to orient yourself as you feel and fumble for a lamp, wall or table. 

Slowly approaching some fixed object or obstacle, you seem to become aware of its presence before you actually make contact with it. You experience a change of temperature or an alteration of sound and air movement between the object and your own hand, body or face. In the sightless stillness, you tentatively reach further. Somehow, you sense your objective is within reach before you actually touch it. Get the drift? Your aura is a permeable energy layer surrounding your entire body and being. Operating within its stillness is a sensation at the opposite end of the full-pressure touch spectrum. 

Boundaries

I set limits for myself and respect those of my clients. Some people don't want their faces or hair touched.  Others like to wrassle head-to-head, ear-to-ear, nose-to-nose. Some clients love attention to their lower back, butt, inner thighs and groin. Others prefer to keep their midsection covered and to themselves. It's your call whether or not you wish to be draped or not, and whether you wish me to wear trunks. In any case, you're captain of your body. You set the course and I'll be the crew.

When our time is through, a warm shower awaits to send you on your way clean and refreshed..

I love being touched as much as I enjoy touching. But during our time together I want our primary focus to be on you. You're free to touch and explore me as I do you. From temples to toes, top to bottom, you'll leave feeling refreshed and rejuvenated. Most of my clients return and recommend me to their friends. 

Here's the most often-asked question. "What if I become aroused during a session?" And here's the answer. Getting an erection is very common for me, clients and/or both. It's perfectly natural and a matter for pride; it's never a reason for embarrassment or shame. It's proof you're alive, the wiring is connected and the plumbing still works. 

In this context, size doesn't matter. It's irrelevant whether one of us is bigger or smaller than the other. We're each men with basically the same equipment so there's no reason for shyness, intimidation or feelings of inadequacy or superiority.

For perspective, here are two Bobisms: "The chocolate is delightful regardless how many taste buds you've got."  Or, "You get to the same city in a Austin Mini or a Land Rover." 

Getting hard or getting off is a natural response in a sensual massage. But an orgasm isn't a primary objective (as it often is in an erotic session). You may experience a release during our time together but making you come and go isn't primary on the agenda. In fact, sometimes it detracts from the massage because afterward guys either just want to snooze, get up and leave, or start feeling guilty. An orgasm can be a wonderful and needed release; or it can unlock feelings of shame or confusion. Let's try to keep things simple. If you cum, that's fine. If you don't, that's fine. Either way, we win.

On the other hand --- don't be offended if I get hard, or don't. Each day and hour is different for me and my chemistry with each client is also different. Sometimes it's a mutual turn-on, other times only one of us may be aroused. If I'm not erect for every hour and every client, I hope they'll understand that I have a job to do --- and that's my overriding focus. And I hope they'll understand that regardless how sensual the session, I'm still working for a fee, not playing for free. Clients can still enjoy themselves without feeling bad that they didn't excite me equally.

With some masseurs, once you cum the session stops, even if only ten minutes have passed. That's not me. Others give a 56 minute massage and then tack on a four-minute "happy ending".  That's not me either. Instead of adding a cherry on top, I prefer a creamy center that's part of the mix.

Also, don't wait 'til we've spent an hour on your massage and then pout, one head down and the other head up, frustrated you didn't get relief.  Within our scheduled time if you want to take matters into your own hands I'm glad to help.

Massage is an extraordinarily personal experience. Often the only other people who come into such close contact with you are your health care providers and your partners or mate. If you are unclear about what might occur in a session or what you want to happen, just call or drop me an e-mail. 

You may want to check my recently added websites if you're interested in sensitive nipples,  prostate massage, chest and butt work, leather massage  or BDSM.

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